It has been three years and three months since I was diagnosed with Cancer. Since then I have lost two friends to Cancer and at least three of my friends have been diagnosed with Cancer. With every new diagnosis my heart hurts. Even though it has been three years and three months I remember my diagnosis day. I remember the month that lead up to my diagnosis day. A month where I was aware that something maybe wrong but not sure what it was. I want to erase the fear, the pain, the sleepless nights that my friends are experiencing. I know I can not. However, I can hold you close to my heart. Think of you throughout the day. Hold your hand. Listen to you. Validate you. Support you. Laugh with you. Love you. Each of us processes news differently. I provide the following to try and help those who are newly diagnosed. There are no magic words to erase the diagnosis. None of us have the right words. Sometimes just a simple I am sorry is sufficient. I do not believe the Ca...