tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-761385944752201562.post5180726147417748021..comments2024-03-27T02:35:04.848-05:00Comments on It's My Life: Bear With Me: PleaseUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-761385944752201562.post-80133371521230574092012-06-10T01:39:00.891-05:002012-06-10T01:39:00.891-05:00Wow, that must be really hard, especially since th...Wow, that must be really hard, especially since this has touched your life before.<br />Like the two commenters said before me, no ONE thing causes someone to take such a drastic action. Usually its a pile up of things, and a feeling of general hopelessness and the inability to see any way out.<br />Two people close to me made serious attempts. One was rescued in the nick of time, the other sadly was "successful". It sucks. And is never the answer.<br />And I think every single person who ever came across someone's path who ends it all, asks themselves "Could i have done anything to prevent this?"<br />I really hope you don't beat yourself up over this Pam.<br />Big hugs<br />from Simoney xxSimoneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09554122579485306611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-761385944752201562.post-85628868169972210772012-05-22T20:21:32.601-05:002012-05-22T20:21:32.601-05:00Your logical side is whispering what you already k...Your logical side is whispering what you already know: that no single thing tipped the scale, and what happened professionally was symptomatic of the problem, not the cause. But your caring side is louder. Grief and pain are loud and ugly. I wish you peace, Pam. --deb t.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-761385944752201562.post-33080570252085406082012-05-22T17:39:55.215-05:002012-05-22T17:39:55.215-05:00Pam, I don't know what to say except I'm s...Pam, I don't know what to say except I'm sorry. You are a wonderful friend and social worker! No matter how this person crossed paths with you, I have no doubt your assessment was spot-on. Keep working on buying off your emotional side - in this case, your logical side is clearly the winner :)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14490418906660725896noreply@blogger.com